Life is good! Luke is home, our kids are happy, and we are all excited to be together.
Luke was gone for work meetings from 4:30am on Wednesday came home around 9pm Thursday night and was back at work today for his normal hours 4:30am-4pmish. So I was able to see him for a little bit last night but the kids were already sleeping when he came home. So they were excited to see him walk in the door tonight! Owen woke up crying this morning because he wanted his Daddy, and Ava cried herself to sleep at nap time saying she wanted her Daddy.
I have been struggling with Owen for about a week now. We just have not been getting along very well. Last night I went to bed really upset with the way things have been going with the two of us. So I decided today was going to be a good day for us. Owen is our child who loves to have lots and lots of attention. It can be positive or negative to him it doesn't matter as long as he gets it. Lately he has been getting a lot of negative attention from me. But, like I said I was going to make sure today would be a good day. I kept him overly busy, included him in everything, and ignored most of my household chores. We had a GREAT day! The two of us even had a peanut picnic out on the deck while Ava and Ezra were napping. FYI - A peanut picnic is having a snack of peanuts in the shell. This is something Owen loves to do. He likes to crack open the shells and eat the peanuts. And, when there is a hard one to get open he hands it over for someone else to open it fir him. Well any way during our peanut picnic we had a really nice talk. I love spending one on one time with him because he brings up some really great topics to talk about. For example during our peanut picnic we touched on these topics which might I add were all brought up by him...needing 2 more brothers, fishing in our boat at Little Boy Resort, Jesus dying for our sins, ants, peanuts, cleaning spaghetti noodles off the floor, Daddy coming home, and Lego's. I have come to the conclusion that I need to spend more of my time focusing on Owen and less time doing MY stuff. No I will not go over board and only focus on Owen but I obviously have found out in the last week that my Mommy/Owen Balance is off. But, giving him more attention sure makes every ones day go better.
Like I said we are all happy!